As an adoptive/foster parent, relative caregiver, teacher, or grandparent, you may feel overwhelmed, exhausted, disconnected and afraid for your child's future. Maybe you don't feel like you at are at your best, and you are at a loss as to how to handle your child's challenging behaviors. Maybe you even feel like there is a disconnect between the two of you, or perhaps you are questioning whether or not your child is attached to you at all.